Offering Support

Identifying a child as a glass child requires attentive

observation. Signs that a child might be struggling include

withdrawal, anger, depression, anxiety, declining academic

performance, excessive self-imposed pressure to excel, and a

loss of interest in friends and hobbies. These signs often reflect

the emotional toll of their unique sibling circumstances.

The process of supporting glass children involves open

communication and empathetic understanding. Amodio and

Hafeez stress the importance of acknowledging each child's

individual needs and experiences. Rather than viewing

"problem" behaviors as issues to be "fixed," parents should

approach them with compassionate curiosity. Why is this

behavior happening? What underlying emotions might be

contributing to it?

Crucially, communication should extend beyond verbal

exchange. Praise can provide affirmation, but it's essential to

ensure that a child's worth isn't solely tied to their productivity

or independence. Encouraging children to share their feelings

and desires is pivotal, as their internal struggles may not

always be outwardly visible. Engaging in conversations that

validate their emotions and experiences can foster emotional

resilience.